Life Challenges Bring Clarity
Friday, January 14, 2011 at 12:52PM I woke up in a bit of a fog this morning. I was not sure why but decided to go on a walk and clear my head.
Life throws us challenges which can turn the course of our lives. That is what happened to me 8 years ago today. January 14, 2003 I was riding my bike and got hit by a car. The vapor cleared and I remembered. At 8 am I was laying on a gurney at UCLA and now I was walking in the sunshine.
Usually I remember a week or two before or a few days ahead. Last year I woke up in the middle of the night in a dream remembering the incident. This time I remembered today showing how time can heal.
However, this blog is not about the past but what the experience did for me. First of all, I would not take it back. Why? I learned about real emotional and physical pain in a way that I could never have otherwise. I know what it feels like to be traumatized, how to work through the physical and emotional trauma, and help others. I can now sit with clients and friends and hold the pain with them - something I did not know that much about before.
What life challenges helped you become the person you were meant to be? Have you been diagnosed with diabetes, cancer or had an accident or death of a loved one? These occurrences are never expected or welcome and come at inopportune times, interrupting the flow of our lives. Or do they?
I was a bit of a workaholic trying to save the health of the world without really balancing mine. My AA clients taught me an expression: “God does for you what you cannot do for yourself.” Through the accident I learned more balance in work and home life, to take more breaks, to experience friends and nature. I learned what really matters most, who my friends were, and to do what makes me happy versus what I “have to do.”
A life challenge can put you in a fog for a while but when the haze clears ask yourself what’s important? Is your “to do” list really necessary? Who do you want to spend your time with? What will really matter in the end? Is there something you’re meant to do to help the human race? Being on this planet is not a mistake. The pain of the interruption may reset your life course to an unexpected journey of health and new life.
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